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The book Killing and Dying: Stories by Adriana Tomine was published in 2015 by Drawn and Quarterly.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

As parents, no matter if biological or not, we need to equip our children with skills that will allow them to live independently. For example, we need to teach them to cook so they don’t starve once they live without us. It is also good to teach them to recognize and name their own feelings, this helps a lot. Because recognizing and naming other people’s feelings is a more difficult art. Navigating in the social world, in this complicated web of mutual relations is an extremely difficult task. It is impossible to prepare for all situations and it is impossible to practice every possible combination of this web. It seems that the only universal resource we can equip children with is distance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Adrian Tomine, in his book Laughter and Death, breaks down very complicated human relationships and systems into comic windows. Frame by frame, balloon by balloon, he analyzes the web of interconnectedness and reveals to the reader the emotions that drive the characters. This is a comic book for adults and for older teens, a pictorial manual indicating the place of the individual and his feelings in social relationships.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In six stories,<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

the reader has the opportunity to observe the struggles of characters lost in this social web. We meet an unfulfilled artist who at some point has to make a choice, assess what is his true dream, family happiness or fame. Then listen to the confessions of a girl deceptively similar to a famous porn star who, because of this similarity, cannot find her own identity. While observe the dynamics of naivety, how out of the longing for acceptance she pushes away reality and accepts violence and abuse. We peep at the desperate attempts to fill the void.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

All the characters in the comic are imperfect people. In a sense broken, burdened with traumas and fears. Using the metaphor of a spider’s web, their eyelet has let go and they need to make new connections in order to stay in the web. The author subtly frames the intimate feelings of his characters, gently touches their sensitive spots and reveals them to the reader. One can browse as if in a mirror. Each of us has been let off the hook at some point. And everyone had to reinvent themselves.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In creating new, more solid and stable connections, we need to know our potential. According to the author, it is located somewhere between our expectations and possibilities. What allows us to find it is the distance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More recommended books can be found here<\/a>.<\/p>\n[:pl]\n

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Ksi\u0105\u017cka Adriana Tomine tytu\u0142owana \u015amier\u0107 i \u015bmier\u0107 by\u0142a wydana przez Wydawnictwo Kultura Gniew<\/a>u<\/a> w roku 2015.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jako rodzice, niewa\u017cne czy biologiczni czy nie, musimy wyposa\u017cy\u0107 nasze dzieci w umiej\u0119tno\u015bci, kt\u00f3re pozwol\u0105 im na samodzielne \u017cycie. Musimy, na przyk\u0142ad, nauczy\u0107 je gotowa\u0107, \u017ceby nie pad\u0142y z g\u0142odu jak ju\u017c zamieszkaj\u0105 bez nas. Dobrze te\u017c nauczy\u0107 je rozpoznawa\u0107 i nazywa\u0107 w\u0142asne uczucia, to bardzo pomaga. Bo rozpoznawanie i nazywanie uczu\u0107 innych ludzi to ju\u017c trudniejsza sztuka. Poruszanie si\u0119 w \u015bwiecie spo\u0142ecznym, w tej skomplikowanej paj\u0119czynie wzajemnych relacji jest niezwykle trudnym zadaniem. Nie da si\u0119 przygotowa\u0107 na wszystkie sytuacje i nie da si\u0119 prze\u0107wiczy\u0107 ka\u017cdej mo\u017cliwej kombinacji tej sieci. Zdaje si\u0119, \u017ce jedynym uniwersalnym \u015brodkiem, w kt\u00f3ry mo\u017cemy wyposa\u017cy\u0107 dzieci, jest dystans.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Adrian Tomine w swojej ksi\u0105\u017cce “\u015amiech i \u015bmier\u0107” rozbija na komiksowe okienka bardzo skomplikowane relacje i uk\u0142ady mi\u0119dzyludzkie. Klatka po klatce, dymek po dymku, analizuje siatk\u0119 wzajemnych powi\u0105za\u0144 i odkrywa przed czytelnikiem emocje nap\u0119dzaj\u0105ce bohater\u00f3w. To komiks dla doros\u0142ych i dla starszych nastolatk\u00f3w, obrazkowa instrukcja wskazuj\u0105ca miejsce jednostki i jej uczu\u0107 w relacjach spo\u0142ecznych.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

W sze\u015bciu historyjkach <\/h4>\n\n\n\n

czytelnik ma mo\u017cliwo\u015b\u0107 obserwowania zmaga\u0144 bohater\u00f3w zagubionych w tej spo\u0142ecznej paj\u0119czynie. Poznajemy niespe\u0142nionego artyst\u0119, kt\u00f3ry w pewnym momencie musi dokona\u0107 wyboru, oceni\u0107 co jest jego prawdziwym marzeniem, szcz\u0119\u015bcie rodzinne czy s\u0142awa. Przes\u0142uchujemy si\u0119 zwierzeniom dziewczyny \u0142udz\u0105co podobnej do s\u0142ynnej gwiazdy porno, kt\u00f3ra przez to podobie\u0144stwo nie mo\u017ce odnale\u017a\u0107 w\u0142asnej to\u017csamo\u015bci. Obserwujemy dynamik\u0119 naiwno\u015bci, jak z t\u0119sknoty do akceptacji wypiera rzeczywisto\u015b\u0107 i godzi si\u0119 na przemoc i wykorzystywanie. Podgl\u0105damy rozpaczliwe pr\u00f3by zape\u0142nienia pustki.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Wszyscy bohaterowie komiksu s\u0105 lud\u017ami niedoskona\u0142ymi. W pewnym sensie popsutymi, obci\u0105\u017conymi traumami i l\u0119kami. U\u017cywaj\u0105c metafory paj\u0119czej sieci, ich oczko pu\u015bci\u0142o i chc\u0105c pozosta\u0107 w sieci musz\u0105 nawi\u0105za\u0107 nowe po\u0142\u0105czenia. Autor subtelnie kadruje intymne odczucia swoich bohater\u00f3w, delikatnie dotyka ich wra\u017cliwych miejsc i ods\u0142ania je dla czytelnika. Mo\u017cna przegl\u0105da\u0107 si\u0119 jak w lustrze. Ka\u017cdemu z nas kiedy\u015b pu\u015bci\u0142o oczko. I ka\u017cdy musia\u0142 si\u0119 na nowo odnale\u017a\u0107.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tworz\u0105c nowe, solidniejsze i stabilniejsze, po\u0142\u0105czenia musimy zna\u0107 sw\u00f3j potencja\u0142. Zdaniem autora mie\u015bci si\u0119 on gdzie\u015b pomi\u0119dzy naszymi oczekiwaniami a mo\u017cliwo\u015bciami. Tym co pozwala nam go odnale\u017a\u0107 jest dystans w\u0142a\u015bnie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Wi\u0119cej rekomendowanych ksi\u0105\u017cek znajdziecie tutaj<\/a>.<\/p>\n[:]","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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